The other day I heard an associate say "I hate when people change over a relationship". She was referring to her friend and her new found love interest. But don't we all do that?
Scenario: You're out and about and meet a wonderful person that peaks your interest. While getting to know them, you invaribly spend all of the time you have with them. So instead of spending every friday and saturday evenings with your girls, you start splitting the time.
Now if you're lucky, your love and friends would get along. But what if they don't? What do you do then?
Do you end the relationship or the friendship? The truth is, one of these relationships will drastically change. Some times that change is termination.
Most choose to pursue the relationship and hold onto "if they are truly my friend, they'll understand." Let's face it, a good relationship is hard to find. The older you are, the worst it becomes. But you still have to ask yourself, is it worth the friendship? .
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