So this is a result of an old flame that was never lit.
We met years ago, but it wasn't a good time for either of us. But due to a "Happy Birthday" call, the door was opened, questions ask and a date set up.
Everything was cool till 2 days before the date. He asked me to pick the day (saturday), the activity (movies) and even which movie to see. But when I asked him to pick the time, he couldn't do that.
Am I being too hard because I expect a man to be able to make simple decisions?
Sigh!
I went and did not cancel like my heart wanted to. I know you think this might be quick of me. But after several txt msgs of indecisiveness, I was weary and ready to bail. But I didn't.
His kudos:
He showed up 40mins early because didn't want me waiting on him.
He refused to let me walk on the outside.
He opened every door and insisted that I walk in front of him or at his side.
Fact: Movies are the WORST type of date if you want to get to know a person better and talk.
Guess what? We saw a double feature!!!
Areas of improvement: I think there might be a saliva issue. I won't say that he has bad breath because I didn't smell that at all. But, I popped a nugget in his mouth and some of his mouth water (in my jamaican voice) got on my finger and it just wasn't right. I might not be able to kiss him.
However, there could be many reasons for this (although if memory serves me, he kissed me on the cheek years ago and I kept wiping my face after).
After he began talking about what's been gong on with him, I felt emotionally drained. And he kept referring to himself as old when he's only 3yrs older than me. But he calls me "young lady" sooo he may get a pass lol.
Result: One more date! Too many kudos to not give it another try!
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