Hate on Me?

"For all yall haters out there that are running out of folks to hate on, please feel free to hate on me" Kat Williams

Why, oh why do I feel like this?  If you are in your 30's or older, you should NO LONGER be a hater!!! Get out there and get your own!
Thy is this such a foreign concept?

I know I have been blessed with amazing and I stress, AMAZING friends (such as the ones reading this right now). But what the hell did I do to deserve haters? And yes, I said haterS!!!!

Am I a model? NO
Am I married with a fabulous husband? NO(t yet)
Do I have AMAZING kids? Again NO(t yet)
Do I have a super duper job that pays me bookoo bucks to do absolutely nothing? NO!!!! (not yet, lol)

So why hate on me?

Is it hard to identify if you are a hater?  Hmmm, let's see:
If someone says something nice to you about someone else, and your response is negative, You're a Hater!
If people are admiring your friend and all you can think about is moving away from the area so folks can look at you, You're a Hater!
If people seek the advice of a friend (or so called friend) instead of you and you find yourself getting upset when they do, you might have some hater tendencies!
If you feel the need to put another chic on blast to make yourself feel better, or better yet, if you think you are better than any one else because you rock your "real hair" or you have never had a zit in your life, OR your baby daddy just bought you a new (insert item here), or or or, (get this)
You are a better christian cause you kept your legs closed and they didn't......... You're a HATER!!!!!

Geez! Don't we as women already have too much to worry about? Life is always trying to pull us down. But yet, some of us spend sooo much time trying to put another down.
At the end of the day, we all have problems, we are not perfect, we all wish and long for something else.
Ok, so you see my car, you see my house, you see my style, you see how folks like me and want to be my friend and all you can think of is how to put it all down? Are you serious? Go get it for yourself!!!
Do you know my demons? Do you see my mirror? Do you know my pains vs my dreams?
Oh , you think you do because I let you see a side of me. AND still you feel the need to point out my imperfections instead of fostering my accomplishments? And you think I should call you my friend???
Ya right!
You want my shoes? Take'm!
I know pain, I know loss, I live with hurt every day.
But I know love! The love of GOD!!! So I smile!!! smh  I Smile to keep me from crying!!!!

So the next time you see another woman that seems to have it going on, instead of hating, CONGRATULATE!!!! Because you have noooooo idea what she has to go home to, what puts her to sleep at night and what darkness lives inside her!