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Sunday, December 11, 2011

When to let go!

I know I said that I would update the men of the challenge in that post. However, this one needs to be separated. Curly top, the 1st man to stand me up, made a comeback. A few days after the stand up (3 to be exact), he sent me a text apologizing and saying that his phone died and he didn't have my number written anywhere. Normally, I would have ignored it and kept moving. But due to the challenge, I decided to give him another shot. He seemed very apologetic and willing to do anything to make up for it. Well....... We set up another date which he kept trying to get me to come to his house. Finally, I told him I wanted I Indian or sushi (neither of which he can make). Low and behold, No show! No call! No contact!!! I finally sent a text message saying that I didn't appreciate being stood up for a second time and he could go ahead an lose my number. Needless to say, he sent a text 2 days later saying that he was sorry and that now his family member is in the hospital. Please understand I am not heartless, however I must follow my gut. He said that NOW... not that he didn't call because he went out of town to handle that. I feel sorry for his relative and I will pray for them and the rest of the family. But I truly have no desire to let him back in again. I believe he's playing games so I'm sorry, he's been eliminated from the challenge.

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